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Roommates: Can you live with them?
Cintriece Brown
Issue date: 9/14/06 Section: Features
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More often then not, incoming freshman and transfer students do not get to choose whom they are going to room with.
Although Sacred Heart's Office of Residential Life puts in a great deal of time and effort into compatibly when pairing freshman in rooms, housing can still be a hit or miss experience.
There are many questions and concerns that arise when people live with someone new for the first time.
How well will we get along? What type of person is my new roommate? Am I the type of person who can live with someone else?
Although the trial and tribulations of living with a stranger can be stressful, there are many ways to make having a new roommate a pleasant experience. You may even become life long friends.
"Communication is the key to getting along," said Michaela Martone, junior, Locust Valley N.Y. "Being roommates is like being in a relationship, in a way,"
"You have to work at it, respect each other and take it one day at a time. If you don't, you can get lost in the shuffle and miss out on a valuable friendship," said Martone.
There are many things to keep in mind when living with someone. It is important to take into consideration your roommate's feelings and requests.
Utter disregard can create animosity and grudges.
"Just make it as fun as possible," said Jason Rancourt, junior, Waltham, Mass.
"Even if you and your roommate are somewhat or completely different, still try to have fun with it. Look past the differences and focus on what you both have in common. You don't have to be friends, but living together does have to be pleasant," said Rancourt.
Don't forget to make it clear to one another what your likes and dislikes are. Voice your issues whether they are personal or with one another.
Time alone is just as important as time with your roommate.
According to FamilyEducation.com, a site specifically for entering freshmen, they warn to not be disappointed if you and your roommate are not the best of friends; don't force the relationship.
Always establish "house" rules as soon as possible. Also try to create roommate rituals and give each other the opportunity to get to know one another.
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